The Class of 64

The  School Rugby XV of 1963 has a place on the wall which holds  all the family pictures- some going back to 1890. Its in-between my mother in the Oxford University tennis team of 1938,and my son’s Latymer Upper 1997/8  all conquering soccer side.. We had  an up to date photo of the present family  complete with  children, partners and their children done only the other week.

But what of that XV all like me in their late 60s, most of the race run. What happened to them. Three died in their fifties. One working at the patent office, another an  entrepreneur(who was married to my wife’s sister) and  the third a pop musician.

Another   never left his home town of Bournemouth  and has become a successful artist. One went back to the States and became a marine biologist. The head boy worked  I think  for BOC. One of the boy wonders became a  not very successful property developer,another a successful chef. Then there was the boy wonder who built up a serious City insurance  furm..

The fly half, who was my best man had an erstwhile career as a copywriter but burnt out in his early thirties. The vice captain became a successful school and head master. Me a reasonably successful  journalist. The pack leader, who died  a thousand deaths in every game an accountant. Others became a head hunter and an IT consultant.

Four or five of us are still in contact through Old Boy events. Two or three of us  are close friends. Given that at most only ten per cent of old boys keep in contact, this is a high proportion. Which maybe supports a theory of mine that those that enjoyed sporting  success  at school have fonder memories and therefore more reason to return.

So what is the moral of this? Does there have to be one? Middle class boys from middle class families, sent away to school to learn the  right habits, repeating the experience, most sending their children to similar schools and the crocodile marching way into the sun set. At ten we are all promising and seventy we are all disappointed. But we are too hard on ourselves. Whatever Cassius says at least some of our  fate is written in the stars. How bright they shone in 1963. And still they twinkle. If only on the wall.

Advertisements
This entry was posted in Uncategorized. Bookmark the permalink.

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s